AllHaven is meant to be a safe place for everyone, regardless of ethnicity, gender, sex, sexual orientation, age or mental health status, and we'd enjoy keeping it that way. We've got an emphasis on community, so you're always welcome here.
We have also got a few rules, but other wise we're pretty relaxed.
#1 - Zero Tolerance Policy on Discrimination: As this is a server specifically designed to be a welcome and encouraging place for everyone, regardless of their sex, ethnicity, religious beliefs, etc; there is in place a zero tolerance policy for any forms of discrimination. You get caught mistreating or discriminating against someone, you'll be banned. This is one of the few ways to get instantly-banned here, so just chill out, take it easy and let everyone enjoy themselves.
#2 - No adult images/videos/etc: This server is aimed at a PG/PG+13 rating, so all forms of pornography and nudity are not allowed. Questionable images/gifs/videos are up to mods/owner discretion. If an uploaded image violates this rule, it will be taken down and you'll be given a warning. Multiple warnings may result in a temporary kick, repeated violations may result in a ban. If you disagree with an image being removed, feel free to bring it up with a mod, but be respectful. But if the decision stands, just assume we were erring on the side of caution. The internet is for porn, so if you're looking for it, there's plenty of other places to find it.
#3 - Nothing illegal/against Discord TOS: Obviously, we also can't allow you to do anything illegal or against Discord's own TOS. Depending on the infringement or it's severity, you may get a warning, a kick or a ban, or even be reported to Discord itself.
#4 - No bullying/gas-lighting/harassment/arguing: Friendly, intense discussions are fine, but the second things get aggressive or personal, it's time to knock it off. All forms of bullying and/or harassment are also not allowed. If you're gonna fight, you've got PMs to do it in. Don't do it here where people are trying to relax. Violation of this rule will typically involve a warning or two before a ban, depending on the severity.
#F - Enjoy yourself: Yes this is a rule. We take it very seriously.
Essentially, just relax, enjoy your time here and let others enjoy their time here too. AllHaven is a safe space for everyone and we plan on keeping it that way.
So feel free to join, make yourself at home and I hope you're all having a good day. L)